When people describe me, they usually say things like, “Oh, you’re so nice! You’re so funny! You’re so much prettier and more boobacious than your fellow redhead Christina Hendricks!” Okay, at least some of those things are said. But what no person except my loving husband would ever say is “You are so gut-wrenchingly competitive that it’s a wonder our relationship has survived and I have not tried to run you over with my car.” You would not think that under my laid-back appearance and easygoing demeanor lies a heartless competitor who cannot – CANNOT – bear to lose.